My wife and have a healthy relationships, but for many years, our communication skills were off. We were looking for ways how to improve communication with our each other. We did a lot of research on the subject and discovered that all roads led to the same conclusion. Effective communication begins when we listen to each other. After discovering that this was our communication barriers, we came up with a solution. We recorded our conversations. When we would listen back to them, we rediscovered some of our cute love stories.